Which is not to say that Egyptian historians and writers, including mystery writer Elizabeth Peters, aren't aware that Nefertiti was the wife of the "heretic" Pharaoh Akhenaten. When I was growing up, one of my favorite books was Lucile Morrison's Lost Queen of Egypt, which focuses mostly on the story of Akhenaten's daughter (and eventual wife of Tutankhaten/hamun).
Morrison's take, like Peters (whose characters are products of nineteenth-century thinking), is that Akhenaten was a forward-thinker. After all, he was so much like us moderns. He has modern ideas! He encourages modern art forms! He loves his wife like a modern husband! He promotes religious ideas that are normally associated with the Common Era!
The historical perspective brings Nefertiti into focus as a possible supporter of her husband's ideology. She was likely the daughter of powerful and wealthy commoners. She is continually portrayed in the art of Akhenaten's court as a co-ruler. Her name, in the past, would have automatically been associated with his. Think Imelda Marcos.
And yet, her art--her legend--has survived beyond the husband and the time period that immortalized her. She's Nefertiti, not Nefertiti and...that guy with the difficult-to-pronounce name.